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Boundaries Are Sexy: Lady Hao merch

No. 03

Boundaries Are Sexy

“No” is a full sentence. So is “I'm not available for that.” So is leaving someone on read.

This sachet is a little pocket reminder that your boundaries aren't mean, they're magnetic. Rosemary, bay, and sage bring the backbone. Rose petals keep it soft. Mugwort is there for trusting what you already know, even when someone's working hard to talk you out of it.

How to use: Tuck it in your bag, your nightstand, your car, or right next to the phone you keep not answering. Hold it before a hard conversation if you want. Give it a squeeze now and then to wake the scent back up.

Inside: rosemary, bay leaf, culinary sage, rose petals, mugwort, in a muslin bag.

Tied up by hand by Lady Hao, who's been saying no with a smile for decades and highly recommends it.

Not for consumption. Keep away from kids and pets. Contains mugwort, so skip it if you're pregnant.


Handmade in small batches in Grovetown, GA by your favorite apothecary and village elder, Lady Hao. Every piece is mixed, measured, and tied up by hand, so no two are exactly alike. Sold for ritual and decorative use. No specific results promised.

USD 16.00

HandmadeSmall Batch

Small batch. When they’re gone, they’re gone.

Order by Dec 16 for Christmas.

Pairs well with